{"id":931,"date":"2023-01-16T14:21:02","date_gmt":"2023-01-16T14:21:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/semlexforeducation.com\/?p=931"},"modified":"2025-07-18T15:05:15","modified_gmt":"2025-07-18T15:05:15","slug":"positive-education-yes-or-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/semlexforeducation.com\/en\/positive-education-yes-or-no\/","title":{"rendered":"Positive Education, Yes or No?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The world is only changing and parenthood is also affected by all these changes. Parents often wonder about the best way to educate their child. Even if today children are listened to more than in the past, it is sometimes difficult to know how to go about it.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Positive education, what is it?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The objective of positive education, also called &#8220;benevolent education&#8221;, is to encourage the child rather than to punish him. It is an educational method that manages family difficulties in order to pacify relationships. We are here against punitive and coercive methods such as punishments, spankings, threats, etc. Positive education promotes trust and communication.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Positive education, what for?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Neuroscience studies have shown that punitive and coercive methods block all reasoning in children and promote withdrawal. This is the first time that an educational approach has been scientifically validated. Indeed, research has shown that a benevolent education allows the brain to develop well.<\/p>\n<p>However, you must be careful not to fall into the trap. An overly positive education can sometimes be perceived as lax. Indeed, positive education also requires setting rules for the child. The latter needs a framework to grow.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>A new vision of education<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Positive education is a totally different vision from the authoritarian education known at the time. She defends the idea that it is totally possible to educate your child in joy and good humor.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Our tips for understanding positive parenting<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>For a positive education, it is necessary:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Communicate and express emotions;<\/li>\n<li>Set rules;<\/li>\n<li>Avoid punishments and rewards;<\/li>\n<li>Trust;<\/li>\n<li>Do not scream ;<\/li>\n<li>Do not judge.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>To learn more about positive education, do not hesitate to read the following books:<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00ab L\u2019enfant \u00bb by Maria Montessori\u00a0;<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab J\u2019ai tout essay\u00e9 \u00bb by Isabelle Filliozat\u00a0;<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab L\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9ment \u00bb by Ken Robinson\u00a0;<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab Porter un regard bienveillant sur l\u2019enfant et sur soi \u00bb by Arnaud Deroo\u00a0;<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab La discipline positive \u00bb by Jane Nelsen.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sources\u00a0: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>LA LIBRE (2022). <em>L\u2019\u00e9ducation positive, nouvelle religion\u200ades parents\u200a?\u00a0 <\/em>Available <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lalibre.be\/lifestyle\/magazine\/2022\/02\/26\/leducation-positive-nouvelle-religion-des-parents-UUV5W7O6WBCD3GYWMK3DO3HLDA\/\">HERE<\/a><\/p>\n<p>MPEDIA (2020). <em>Qu\u2019est-ce que l\u2019\u00e9ducation positive ?\u00a0 <\/em>Available <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mpedia.fr\/art-education-positive\/\">HERE<\/a><\/p>\n<p>PASSEPORT SANTE. <em>10 choses \u00e0 savoir sur l&#8217;\u00e9ducative positive<\/em>.\u00a0 Available <a href=\"https:\/\/www.passeportsante.net\/fr\/Actualites\/Dossiers\/DossierComplexe.aspx?doc=dix-trucs-education-positive-bienveillante\">HERE<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The world is only changing and parenthood is also affected by all these changes. 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